Driven by Destiny

Thursday, December 18, 2014

BDSM pics of the day: Anticipation is what I have in my eyes, Swami!!

December 18, 2014 at 09:19AM

BDSM pics of the day: Stripping for Master is chicken soup for a Slave’s soul

December 18, 2014 at 09:18AM

BDSM pics of the day: To crave approval of her Master even for the bra and panties she wears, is what defines a slave

December 18, 2014 at 09:17AM

BDSM pics of the day: How slaves feel about the best Masters

December 18, 2014 at 09:15AM

BDSM pics of the day: I love it when I exhibit myself to my Master for an inspection

December 18, 2014 at 09:11AM

BDSM pics of the day: The bliss of being owned

December 18, 2014 at 09:09AM

BDSm pics of the day: I’m your property Master! Thank you for collaring me

December 18, 2014 at 09:08AM

Monday, December 15, 2014

Serving Swami: The secret connection between Sex and Service

A new study published in the journal American Sociological Review finds that 

if men want a lot of this.....

they should avoid doing any of this.......

Yes!! That's right!!

The study found that men who regularly do housework, such as cooking and cleaning, have less sex than men who don’t bother. Researchers from the Juan March Institute in Madrid studied data based on relationships of 4,561 middle-aged US couples over 20 years, including their sex lives and how they divide household chores. The study found that men who did ‘feminine’ tasks had sex less often than those who shunned the iron and oven. In fact, men who divorced themselves from core chores, had sex one and a half times more a month than those who pulled their weight in the home.


As my readers already know, I am a strong believer in traditional gender roles. I take great pride in cooking and cleaning and welcoming my Swami home with a warm smile and some hot snacks when he returns from a hard day's work. Waiting on Swami hand and foot fills a deep yearning in me and I don't consider it demeaning or unjust. In fact I feel lucky and privileged that he chose me from countless other women to do this for him.

My Swami works hard and is the primary breadwinner in our family. He takes on the pressure of making sure that our family is protected and financially secure. The least I can do for him is to keep his home clean and inviting when he returns from a hard days work.

Ironically, I get the greatest joy when he asks me to do something from him that he could have done himself, like get him a glass of water while we are watching TV or removing his shoes for him when he comes back home from work. I know a lot of my friends get particularly irritated when their husbands ask them do this and angrily retort with "You have a pair of legs and hands, do it yourself"

I find their logic totally bizarre. Why would I ever say this to the man I adore and worship? Here he is, giving me an opportunity to serve him, which gives me an opportunity to build some good karma, and I am going to turn him down??!!!  What price can I place on the loving look in his eyes followed by a "thank you dear" and a light gentle caress, when I return with that glass of water.

To me, that look in his eyes, that soft "thank you", that sensual caress, the romantic squeeze when he pulls me near him are all priceless soul stirring moments and I would be stark raving mad to walk away from it because I am just a little too lazy to walk a few steps into the kitchen and fetch a glass of water for him!!

Yes, I do give freely to my Lord, but OMG, I get so much more in return from him!! Serving him is such a cheap, effective and sure fire way to remain ensconced in the throne of his heart that I am surprised other women eschew it so deliberately.

And now there is proof that my refusal to let my Lord and Master do household work even helps my sex life  :-) Yeh!!!

Friday, December 12, 2014

Weekend Bollywood Blast: Come my Darling ( Aa re Pritam Pyaare)

Chutki and I will be dancing this song for Swami today :-)
I am so excited!!

Very Suggestive Bollywood Song from the movie Rowdy Rathore. The first one has subtitles. The second version is higher resolution but without the subtitles

And here are two White girls dancing to the same song :-)

BDSM pics of the day: OMG, I would be mortified to do that!

December 12, 2014 at 10:26AM