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Monday, February 23, 2015

Goodbye to all my readers

Looks like Google is changing their Content Guidelines yet again. This time, they want to shutdown adult blogs for good!

Here is their email to me

Dear Blogger User,

We're writing to tell you about an upcoming change to the Blogger Content Policy that may affect your account.

In the coming weeks, we'll no longer allow blogs that contain sexually explicit or graphic nude images or video. We'll still allow nudity presented in artistic, educational, documentary, or scientific contexts, or where there are other substantial benefits to the public from not taking action on the content.

The new policy will go into effect on the 03/23/2015. After this policy goes into effect, Google will restrict access to any blog identified as being in violation of our revised policy. No content will be deleted, but only blog authors and those with whom they have expressly shared the blog will be able to see the content we've made private.

Our records indicate that your account may be affected by this policy change. Please refrain from creating new content that would violate this policy. Also, we ask that you make any necessary changes to your existing blog to comply as soon as possible, so that you won't experience any interruptions in service. You may also choose to create an archive of your content via Google Takeout (

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Saturday, February 21, 2015

God help the women in the western world!!

I ran across this article in the Huffington Post mocking advice that was given to our grandmothers and mothers on how to be in a happy relationship. They took pains to point out the "10 worst pieces of advice that was ever given to women". As I read them, I realized how practical and wise these pearls of wisdom really were. 

It is sad that today women mock this and yet expect to be in fulfilling and successful relationships. Here is my advice to women. If you really want to have a happy marriage and a man madly in love with you, don't be like the Amanda Scherker otherwise you will land up as a bitter spinster. So what is that upset Amanda and her ilk so much. Here is the article

First things first: Earn that ring.
"It is up to you to earn the proposal — by waging a dignified, common-sense campaign designed to help him see for himself that matrimony rather than bachelorhood is the keystone of a full and happy life." -- "How to Make Him Propose," Coronet, 1951.
In other words, Amanda wants us women to be entitled princesses who demand to be put on pedestals without deserving it at all. She would rather tell women 
" Make him earn the privilege of marrying a snooty selfish woman like you"

2. Next, rearrange your whole day for him.
“Change around your schedule so that you will always be there when your husband needs you, accept his emotional distortion, and to build up his self-esteem.” --Ladies’ Home Journal, April 1950.
In other words, have him rearrange his entire day to your whims and fancies, even if he works hard all day to provide for the family. Be selfish, demand more. Her advice would be
Remember, me first, have him work around your schedule

3. Remember, he doesn't want to hear about your lady troubles.
"Don’t bother your husband with petty troubles and complaints when he comes home from work." -- "Sex Today in Wedded Life," by Edward Podolsky, 1943.
In other words, as soon as he steps into the home, inundate him with all your problems. That is why he left all the crap at work to come home. And make sure you do it before you serve him tea or a hot snack. After all you don't want him distracted. Her advice would be
Text him your problems through out the day. It keeps him engaged with you and forces him to communicate

4. Never nag him, or he'll cheat on you.
"I verily believe that the happiness of homes is destroyed more frequently by the habit of nagging than by any other one. A man may stand that sort of thing (nagging) for a long time, but the chances are against his standing it permanently. If he needs peace to make life bearable, he will have to look for it elsewhere than in his own house. And it is quite likely that he will look." -- "Sex Satisfaction and Happy Marriage," Reverend Alfred Henry Tyrer, 1951.
Yeah, men love women who nag them. One of the biggest complains Swami has with me is that I don't nag him enough. When I berate him, he really knows I care. She would advice women to 
Nag him, Nagged husbands live longer
5. Stay squeaky clean.
"The wife, whether the bride of a day or the bride of thirty years, should be clean. Literally from the crown of her head to her very toes, she should be clean, so clean as to be able to stand inspection even in complete nudity." -- "Married Life and Happiness,"William Josephus Robinson, 1922.
Giggle. this one took the cake. I can see why Amanda has a problem with it. Who wants to wax and shave and waste all that time? Why should women do anything to keep themselves attractive Amanda clearly knows that men like hairy women and if they dont then he is just a pig. Her advice would be
Grow out your armpit and body hair. And if he doesn't like it turn to advice 4. Nag the hell out of him

6. Don't clean too much, though, or he'll cheat on you.
"Men like a clean house, but fussing about all the time, upsetting the house in order to keep it clean, will drive a man from the house elsewhere." -- "Married Life and Happiness," William Josephus Robinson, 1922.
In other words, don't be too concerned about driving your man bat-shit crazy. Do whatever you feel you need to do. Its your house, not his. If you want to spend all the time in the world on it and not on him, he should just accept it. Her advice would be
Focus on the material things in life. They deserve your complete and undivided attention

7. Wear his favorite ruffly underwear, preferably in pink.
"That the underwear should be spotlessly clean goes without saying , but every woman should wear the best quality underwear that she can afford. And the color… should be preferably pink. And lace and ruffles, I am sorry to say, add to the attractiveness of underwear, and are liked by the average man." -- "Married Life and Happiness,"William Josephus Robinson, 1922.
In other words, Amanda would have preferred if women were advices to wear disgusting, unsexy, dirty, over sized underwear. Her advice would be
He should find you sexy even in the dirtiest, most slovenly, utterly disgusting piece of clothing and has no right to expect you to dress sexily. So go on, just wear that dirty sweatpants and smelly tshirt and demand a kiss from him when he walks in

8. If you're unhappy with your sex life, just grin and bear it.
"Now, if you are one of those frigid or sexually anesthetic women, don’t be in a hurry to inform your husband about it. To the man it makes no difference in the pleasurableness of the act whether you are frigid or not unless he knows that you are frigid. And he won’t know unless you tell him, and what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him. Heed this advice. It has saved thousands of women from trouble." -- "Married Life and Happiness," William Josephus Robinson, 1922.
Hmm. This is indeed bad advice. I have to agree with Amanda here. If you are not happy, don't grin and bear it. Talk to him about it. Way to go Amanda, you actually spotted a genuine howler

9. Get along with kids and old people; avoid poets and musicians.
"Similarly, girls who will be happy in marriage enjoy teaching children and have a fondness for old people. They are not strong admirers of musicians and poets though they may like good music or poetry. They believe mates should be virgins at marriage and faithful thereafter." -- "Modern Bride," 1952.
In other words, hate kids and his parents. That will convince him to stay with you. Since only a loser man wants to propagate his genes and raise a family. Her advice would be
If he wants kids, make it clear that they are entirely his responsibility, unless you divorce him of course, then you can take them with you and just make him pay for child support

10. Don't be slovenly.
"Nothing destroys the happiness of married life more than the lazy, slovenly wife." --"Bath Chronicle," Dobbin Crawford, 1930.
Why should a woman contribute anything to a marriage? Isn't it enough that she agreed to be married. Now it is the man's job to do everything

Be disgusting and lazy. It is the surest way to a man's heart.

God help western women who follow in Amanda's footsteps. I am glad I did not have a mother or friend like her. Otherwise I wouldn't need enemies!!!

Friday, February 20, 2015

BDSM pics of the day: Windows to the soul

February 20, 2015 at 02:25PM A slave’s eyes are the window to her soul and when those eyes look at their Master, there is instant respect, admiration and devotion.

BDSM pics of the day: Always watching

February 20, 2015 at 12:00PM To a good slave, it doesn’t matter if her Master is present or not, she always behaves as if he were watching and present. In fact behaving like his slave even when he is not there is her biggest pride and joy. That’s what mental submission is all about

BDSM pics of the day: Not just another woman

February 20, 2015 at 11:55AM A slave is not just another woman. Once you embrace your slave status, your body and mind belong to someone else. You leave your gender identity behind and embrace your slave identity. What other women might think of you matters very little to you then. All that matters is your Master’s approval

BDSM pics of the day: Getting ready

February 20, 2015 at 11:51AM Sometimes, a slave must prepare for the main act. A good Master always knows how to take his slave to the very edge,but keep her hanging till he can step in to give her release.

BDSM pics of the day: Taken

February 20, 2015 at 07:24AM Some Men have the confidence to take a woman, like she yearns to be taken

Thursday, February 19, 2015

BDSM pics of the day: The ideal dress for a house slave

February 19, 2015 at 03:23PM When you know that the only reason you are naked in your own own is because your Master has forbidden you from wearing any clothes for the day, it really reinforces who your body belongs to. I love it when Swami commands me to be naked in our home on certain days.

BDSM pics of the day: The ultimate fucking machine

February 19, 2015 at 03:20PM Giggle. I must request Swami to use our BMW this way!

BDSM pics of the day: Service is pleasure

February 19, 2015 at 09:57AM A slave like me gets her pleasure simply from providing responsive and warm service to her Master. In giving, I receive so much more