Driven by Destiny

Friday, April 24, 2015

Bdsm pics of the day: Soul food

April 24, 2015 at 10:29PM Sweat, pee, cum of a Master: There is nothing more sexy or erotic for a slave

Bdsm pics of the day: Daddy's little girl

April 24, 2015 at 10:25PM A girl needs her Daddy, some daddys just put pretty jewelry on their baby girls

April 24, 2015 at 10:22PM Long hair that is. How else would a Master sink his entire cock into her mouth till the tip of her nose is being tickled by his pubic hair

Friday, April 17, 2015

BDSM pics of the day: The right amount of force

April 17, 2015 at 03:06PM That’s all it should take for a Master to restrain his slave. The lightest of touches to convey his intention to her. Her mind automatically complies joyfully. Such is the beauty of the Master, slave relationship

Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Bdsm pics of the day: Hand of the Master

April 15, 2015 at 12:57PM A true Master exudes confidence and his every touch and interaction with his slave exhibits that inner strength

Bdsm pics of the day: Chores

April 15, 2015 at 07:11AM Cooking in the nude is an excellent way for a slave to keep her mind focused on her status in life

Bdsm pics of the day: Anally his

April 15, 2015 at 07:09AM To submissively take her Masters cook in her ass, is the hallmark of an obedient and well trained slave

Tuesday, April 14, 2015

Bdsm pics of the day: Always available

April 14, 2015 at 08:21PM Even when you are sleeping, your orifices should be available to your Master because after all aren’t they his property?

Monday, April 13, 2015

Bdsm pics of the day: prayer service

April 13, 2015 at 08:33PM womenslaves: This is how a God is worshipped. With complete devotion, unshakeable respect and total awe

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Dear Daasi: Dominating vs Controlling: What's the difference

Dear Daasi: Do you see any difference between being a Dominating man and a Controlling man?

My Answer: Absolutely. In my mind there is a big difference along the following dimensions

  1. The Dominant man is very clear on his sphere of influence. He decides what this is and once he establishes his sphere of influence, he then establishes his dominance within it. A Controlling man essentially wants a limitless sphere of influence and often struggles to gain control in that limitless sphere in all things
  2. Anybody who enters the Dominant man's sphere of influence must accept his pre-eminent status and accept his dominance. The Dominant man, may forgive challenges to his dominant status a few times, but when he feels like it, he will swiftly assert his power by crushing any challenges to his rank. The Controlling man  constantly seeks to establish his rank, but often is challenged and ignored. He tries to control others in his "perceived sphere of influence" but often is unsuccessful, either because he is weak or because his perceived sphere is too big for him
  3. A Dominant man, dominates with the consent of the dominated. A controlling man "tries or seeks to control" without the consent of the person being controlled. Being controlled is involuntary, but being dominated is voluntary even if it is subconscious
  4. A Dominant man's presence encourages people in his sphere of influence to police their own behavior to align with the dominant's expectations. They know he has the power to enforce so why try and test him every time? A controlling man on the other hand actively tries to police behavior, which backfires on him because nobody really believes he has the power to enforce what he is trying to control
  5. Since a Dominant man understands his sphere of influence, he doesn't try to project his dominance on all things. His goal is not to dominate "all things everywhere at all times". If you are outside his sphere of influence, he really doesn't care or pay attention to  you. You are of no concern to him. You only matter when you are in the sphere of his influence. He preserves his dominant energy and unleashes it only on things that matter to him. A Controlling man is not as discerning. Since he tries to control everything everywhere at all times, he is constantly in a high stress mode
  6. Women perceive a Dominant man as strong, confident, self-assured and generous,even charming. They want to be under his sphere of influence, and readily accept his dominant status. They even enjoy being dominated and feel a sense of security and warmth from his dominance. On the other hand, women perceive a Controlling man as weak, unsure, timid and selfish, essentially a creep or freak. They are afraid of him and resent his attempts to control their actions. They often challenge or even mock him and most will flee from him sooner or later.
  7. Most western women don't like being controlled, but even western women will succumb to being dominated because no matter what they say, they can't help it, its in their genes.
  8. The more a Dominant man dominates, the more the women want to be dominated. It is thus a positive feedback loop. The more the controlling man tries to control, the less the women want to be controlled. It is a negative feedback loop.
  9. The Dominant man uses emotion, commitment and consistency as bait to secure dominance from his women , A controlling man uses logic, fear and threats as bait to secure his control. The former technique succeeds much more than the latter
  10. The Dominated woman feels that the Dominant man is on her side and cares about her needs. A controlled woman feels that the controlling man is working against her interests and cares little for her needs. 

No woman likes a control freak

.....But she readily kneels and surrenders before a Dominant Man